Six loads on the sanitary cycle. That is what it takes to clean up a food poisoning incident for four people. That and a bottle of carpet cleaner, several antibacterial wipes, and a half-bottle of carpet cleaner in the Hoover carpet shampooer. Oh, and several squirts of Febreeze. Chemicals can be a good thing.
I'm so glad I didn't eat the ham. Six out of our seven did. One barely ate a molecule of it. One got lucky- I microwaved his a long time. That's why only four got sick, but last night at 1:00 AM, I kept waiting for those two to join the vomit party. First my husband started the good times. Then my six-year-old. I went to check on my baby only to see him snoozing next to a pile of vomit. Later, I heard through the baby monitor my four-year-old heaving.
My husband doesn't even want to see ham again. Ditto the other unfortunates. I didn't eat the ham, but even I don't want to see it again. I saw enough second-hand ham last night, thanks.
The kids had the day off today, and we were supposed to have friends over for a playdate day and make cookies and other fun stuff. Instead, most of us stayed in Superman p.j.s and the like and cleaned up the results of a very disappointing meal.
The ham had been fully cooked, but it must have sat out too long or something. Lesson learned. I will zap leftover meat for a long, long time. That is if we ever eat it again.
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Monday, February 15, 2010
Friday, October 30, 2009
Lily
Lily is the daughter we didn't get to bring home. At least, not the way we expected. She will be in an urn beside the urn of her older brother, who would have been seven this January. Yes, we have two urns now. I did not plan on being a collector.
This is our third loss so far. The first was due to a blighted ovum, so no urn for that one. The second loss was a baby boy, Evan, who had Trisomy 18. Now Lily, whose death is undetermined at this time. Fortunately, we have five BEAUTIFUL children, and I feel blessed more than ever now that I know how fragile life can be. Thank God for these children at home; they are a life line right now.
What happened to Lily? I have seen a specialist for my past three pregnancies after Evan. I had the neuchal translucency scan to check for chromosomal abnormalities. I did the same for Lily. Her scans at twelve weeks all showed a healthy fetus with no defects. My blood work indicated our chances for a chromosomal problem were one in 3000. At about seventeen weeks, I heard her heartbeat. Less than a month later her heartbeat was gone.
I have gone over everything that I did in that month. The exterminator came. We were around livestock at the fair. There was mold in our basement. I drank caffeine. I had a sinus infection. I don't think any of these things was the cause, but I wonder. No word from my doctor yet, and it is so hard not knowing.
I wonder if we will be able to have the sixth one we were all looking forward to. Because we are already so blessed, I feel bad complaining about it if we can't. However, will I always see the empty seat, the empty coat hook...? Most likely, we do not have a genetic problem that has caused these tragedies. I believe they all have different causes. We were just unlucky. If that is the case, and our doctor says we are not likely to have another stillborn or miscarriage, we may try again. We have much to learn and discuss before we make that decision.
Until then, we will also mourn and heal. I miss the baby for whom we planned. At least I got to meet and hold her. At the last ultrasound, when the heartbeat was not detected and she was still, the doctor told me the news. He switched off the monitor, and all I could think was "turn it back on." I saw her face, and then it was gone. I felt I would never see her again, but I forgot about the part that comes next. I forgot we would pack our bags and go to the hospital. We have done this many times with happy outcomes. This time I would not leave with a baby on my lap, but a memory box instead.
Just a few "memories" are in that box. Among them are tiny footprints and a lace-trimmed blanket the size of a handkerchief. What is not in the box are the dreams of a precious life not lived and love for a little girl named Lily. No box is big enough.
This is our third loss so far. The first was due to a blighted ovum, so no urn for that one. The second loss was a baby boy, Evan, who had Trisomy 18. Now Lily, whose death is undetermined at this time. Fortunately, we have five BEAUTIFUL children, and I feel blessed more than ever now that I know how fragile life can be. Thank God for these children at home; they are a life line right now.
What happened to Lily? I have seen a specialist for my past three pregnancies after Evan. I had the neuchal translucency scan to check for chromosomal abnormalities. I did the same for Lily. Her scans at twelve weeks all showed a healthy fetus with no defects. My blood work indicated our chances for a chromosomal problem were one in 3000. At about seventeen weeks, I heard her heartbeat. Less than a month later her heartbeat was gone.
I have gone over everything that I did in that month. The exterminator came. We were around livestock at the fair. There was mold in our basement. I drank caffeine. I had a sinus infection. I don't think any of these things was the cause, but I wonder. No word from my doctor yet, and it is so hard not knowing.
I wonder if we will be able to have the sixth one we were all looking forward to. Because we are already so blessed, I feel bad complaining about it if we can't. However, will I always see the empty seat, the empty coat hook...? Most likely, we do not have a genetic problem that has caused these tragedies. I believe they all have different causes. We were just unlucky. If that is the case, and our doctor says we are not likely to have another stillborn or miscarriage, we may try again. We have much to learn and discuss before we make that decision.
Until then, we will also mourn and heal. I miss the baby for whom we planned. At least I got to meet and hold her. At the last ultrasound, when the heartbeat was not detected and she was still, the doctor told me the news. He switched off the monitor, and all I could think was "turn it back on." I saw her face, and then it was gone. I felt I would never see her again, but I forgot about the part that comes next. I forgot we would pack our bags and go to the hospital. We have done this many times with happy outcomes. This time I would not leave with a baby on my lap, but a memory box instead.
Just a few "memories" are in that box. Among them are tiny footprints and a lace-trimmed blanket the size of a handkerchief. What is not in the box are the dreams of a precious life not lived and love for a little girl named Lily. No box is big enough.
Thursday, August 13, 2009
Ambercutie's Birth Story
Ambercutie is our one and only girl. I'm glad she is a girlie-girl. How ironic would it be to have my only girl be a tomboy? She is the second oldest and came to be sort of by accident (almost all of our kids are sort of by accident). It depends on what you mean by "planning." Were we "planning" on having another kid? Yes. Did I want to become pregnant with that kid while my first was only eight months old and still nursing? No. I told myself I never wanted to do THAT again. Leech #1 (baby inside) gets fed first, then Leech #2 (baby outside) gets fed, then dear old mom is last. Talk about STARVING. I needed those Krispy Kremes in order to not feel hunger pains for about... two minutes. I really just wanted an IV line. I could wheel it around and feel the fat and calories course through my veins. I could also get the dishes done at the same time. It is so time consuming to eat constantly. Then there's the peeing and sleeping. How was I supposed to raise a toddler in the middle of the full time job that is pregnancy?
As it turns out, I love having kids a year and a half apart. They were into the same stuff (potty training, Barney, etc.). They were the best of friends until about first grade when Critter learned that girls are yucky.
I had much more nausea with the girl. I had vomiting even. With Critter, I had occasional nausea that went away with food. With "Amberpukie," I was sick all the time, food or not. Besides that delight, the pregnancy went well.
I was a week and a half overdue with my first, so I expected the same this time around (so naive). I was already overdue, when a novice nurse examined me and told me I was five centimeters dilated. Holy cow! I told my husband we were going to the hospital tonight. We called the grandparents. Woo hoo! That night, nothing. Next morning, nothing. We were scratching our heads. At my next week's appointment, my doctor examined me and told me I was three centimeters. She apologized for the error. I told her to give me the two centimeters back and all would be forgiven. She said, "you are a good candidate for induction." No thanks. I've been down the pitocin road, and it is NOT for me (a story for another time).
Anyhoo, I got to be two weeks overdue. What the heck was she doing in there? The little diva didn't want to come out until she had pretty long nails and curly hair? I thought, seriously, she has to come out eventually. As all preggos know, we say it, but we don't believe it.
As with my first pregnancy, I began having bad Braxton Hicks about two weeks before the birth. What I mean by bad is that these contractions are no different from real ones. I have had five babies, and I mean I can never tell when real labor begins! The only way I know is that the real contractions get so bad that I have to catch my breath. This false labor can go on all night and the contractions do get closer together, so I can't use "they go away" or "they don't get closer together" as guidelines. The "fake" contractions just don't take my breath away.
I had these fake contractions for several hours, and they were five minutes apart. We decided to head to the hospital, where it was determined I was five centimeters dilated (for real this time). As soon as we walked in the hospital door, the contractions stopped. What kind of cruel game? I expressed my laborly doubt to my nurse, but she said, "honey, you're having this baby tonight." I was admitted, but I felt no more pains. Hubby and I fell asleep and woke up the next morning babyless. The doc came in and said they could induce me or I could go home. I said, "See you later today." Being dilated to five, I knew it wouldn't be long. The nurses looked at me like I was a slime covered alien. What? Why would I want to sit around the hospital all day? Unless they can hook me up to a Krispy Kreme bag...
The next morning I woke up at about 5 AM to annoying pains. I went back to sleep and woke up again to these pesky pains knocking on my peaceful sleeping door. Something about "Wake up. It's time to push out a big fat Irish baby head." I got up, woke Steve up, called the grandparents, called my sister to come and watch Critter, grabbed the bags, and got in the car. The pain was still manageable when I called my ob, who didn't believe me when I was in labor with my first and didn't believe me this time. "Angel, you sound so calm for someone in labor." I'm sorry; I'm not a screamer. I save that for the tween years.
At the hospital, the ladies at the admittance counter looked at me skeptically. I'm sure they were whispering to each other that I'd be going back home in about an hour, because how can a woman supposedly already dilated to five, two weeks overdue, about to GIVE BIRTH stand there quietly like that? Does everyone have to be the stereotypical raving bitchy woman in labor? I like to keep things fresh. Mix it up a little bit.
The nurse told me I was seven centimeters. I told her to call my doctor. Where was my doctor? This was my second baby, and my first labor was quick. She asked me if I wanted an epidural. This time I looked at her like she was an alien covered in slime. I'm seven centimeters, lady. By the time you hook me up the kid will be crowning. I wasn't a fan of this nurse. She was staring at me during contractions, as if she were the zoologist and I was the gorilla rearing up the baby tiger as my own. No. 1, don't stare. No. 2, don't stare at a woman in labor. Did she have a death wish? Seriously, she was causing me to break my mental imagery. I was in Maui, and Critter was building a sandcastle; then this nurse comes over to our beach blanket and asks, "how do you do it?" Well, I'm going to be "doing it" all by myself if you don't get my doctor in here.
By this time, I was in transition. I was swaying my hips holding onto the table with the telephone on it. I focused on those black and white numbers until they swirled before my eyes. The pound sign was especially comforting (I don't know if that is a little Freudian violence?).
Soon, I told the nurse I was ready to push. She examined me and said I was nine and a half. "Almost there," she said. If I had the strength I would have pushed her. She went out into the hall to get the intern on call. Apparently, my doc was told I would be a while, so she went ahead with an elective surgery (tube tying) with another patient who had just given birth.
While the nurse was gone, I hopped up onto the bed and started pushing. To hell with nine and a half. I needed to push. The nurse and intern came in a few minutes later, all befuddled. The nurse said, "Well, I guess if you feel you need to push, go ahead." If my eyes weren't shut tight in pain, I may have rolled them. the teenager, I mean intern, started to examine me when he saw my daughter crowning. I swear, he literally just put his hands out like he was going to catch a football.
And so, Ambercutie, in diva fashion, decided that after making everyone wait for two weeks, she didn't want to wait another hour or so for the real doctor to bring her in the world. She wanted out now. Even if now meant she would be born in poo. Yes, meconium, people. That really freaks nurses out. Suction! That's what happens when you outrun your uterus lease, babies.
**I didn't have the episiotomy with her (not that there would have been time). The tear was small, and I could tell no difference in pain or healing time between the tear and the cut I had with my first labor.
Ambercutie: born October 9, 2000 at 9:46 AM (labor lasted about five hours)
8 pounds and 13 ounces, 21 inches long
Tuesday, June 30, 2009
Critter's Birth Story
Critter is my first born. He is the guinea pig. He is a ten-year-old blonde-haired, blue-eyed cutie. I'm glad we kept him. We decided to have him after we had been married for three years and I had attended too many baby showers one summer. The giraffe-printed onesies finally got to me.
He was due on April 15th. We didn't know if he was going to be a boy or a girl. His nursery was painted yellow with a Hey Diddle Diddle border.
When I was about ten weeks along, I had some spotting. It was terrifying, especially since I had had a miscarriage previously. I was at school, where I worked as an English teacher. I had gone to the restroom to pee (for the millionth time that day, of course), and I noticed the blood in my underwear. I went to my department head, sobbing and hysterical. I thought if this were another miscarriage, maybe I would never have kids. My department head sent someone to cover my class for me; it was the last one of the day, thankfully.
I was in her office, still crying, and students were coming in for this or that. I could just hear the rumors now. No one knew I was pregnant, but I'm sure my kids would wonder what was upsetting Ms. Sullivan. A good cussing? I was fired? A death threat? Gossip rules the high school. Anyway, my boss, who had had her share of miscarriages, sent me home to call my doctor.
My doctor said she didn't do ultrasounds on Friday, but I could make an appointment on Monday. What? We are supposed to wait until Monday to find out if we have lost another baby or not? Livid. Doc says if I'm going to miscarry, there is nothing that can be done about it anyway. Apparently she isn't familiar with the term "peace of mind."
One agonizing weekend later (no more spotting, thankfully), I went in for an ultrasound and saw my little peanut on the screen. Although minuscule, he's alive, and everything looked normal.
I went through the rest of my pregnancy with no more scares. No morning sickness even. I gained 50 pounds. A nurse told me, "I gained too much with my first one too." I wanted to slap her. I didn't gorge myself purposefully; I was just always hungry.
At about 38 weeks, I started having painful Braxton Hicks. My husband, Steve, started timing them. They kept coming regularly until we were about to call the doc, and then theywould fizzle out. This went on for about two weeks. In fact, one night we were so sure the baby was coming that we called the grandparents and headed to the hospital. The moment I waddled in the door the contractions went away. Embarrassing...
While being uselessly checked out at the hospital, I overheard a woman screaming. Her husband was nervously answering questions from the nurse. I heard the nurse say the woman was three centimeters dilated. I had just been told I was dilated to two. I thought in horror, "am I only one centimeter from THAT?" I felt the kind of dread one feels when on a roller coaster and about to go down the big hill.
My hubby and I had attended birth classes like dutiful first timers. I went to the first class determined that no one was going to change my mind about drugs, drugs, and more drugs during the birth. We had wonderful teachers who demonstrated all of the options. They weren't pushy, but objective and honest. The classes served their educational purpose, and we came away from them informed, enlightened, and inspired. Inspired to go all-natural. Yes, I became one of those.
Steve mercilessly kept me walking throughout my pregnancy. We walked a lot toward the end, trying to make things happen. Mostly what happened was my bladder felt like it was going to fall out. One night, at forty-one and a half weeks gestation, we walked to the grocery store (about a mile and a half from our house).
I was having the Braxton Hicks contractions again. I was in a bad mood. Hubby was taking too long deciding on cookies. Finally he picked out some crappy Chips Ahoy, and we headed to the video store next door.
We started for home with the cookies and Witness. We lounged on the couch watching our movie.This was about 8:45 PM. Suddenly I heard a tiny "pop" like someone smacking his lips together. I went into the bathroom, sat on the toilet, and heard tinkling sounds, only I wasn't urinating. My water had broken! It was only trickling, which I didn't even know was an option in water breakage.
Steve and I grabbed our bag, which had a layer of dust on it from being ready for so long (I was a week and a half overdue and had been having false labor since 38 weeks). We called the grandparents and doc. We drove to the hospital to have our Critter.
We got to the hospital about 9:45. Critter was born at 1:45 AM. The labor was about five hours total, that I know of. I could tell NO difference between the false labor pains and the real ones, only that the real ones didn't fizzle out a few hours later, and a baby did eventually come out. Perhaps I had a super long labor lasting two weeks. Either that, or I had a quick labor.
I was thinking I'd have a typical labor of eight to ten hours or longer. Thinking this, I asked for an epidural a little before 1:00. I had been managing the pain by breathing techniques, rocking, and looking at a picture of Maui. I discovered walking while in labor is for the birds. Then, the contractions started coming relentlessly closer together, and I could not rest. I thought I could not take going all night like this.
The nurse I had was one of the most knowledgeable, kind, and skilled that I've ever had. She told me she had had five children (foreshadowing, anyone?), some with an epidural and some without. She didn't push me one way or the other, but simply let me know she'd been there and could answer questions. After she ordered my epidural, she said, "let me check you before we give it to you." She checked me, and I was almost ten centimeters. She told me that she had been suspicious that I was in transition. She advised me to forgo the drugs, because at this point, it was almost over. As if by magic, the pain went away. Maybe my pain-addled brain thought I'd gotten the epidural after all.
I rested for a long time, perhaps twenty minutes, without a contraction (I have since learned this is appropriately called "the resting phase." Then, holy hell, there came the pressure. If I pushed along with it, though, it did not hurt. My baby was resting at the cervical opening in such a way that I felt a natural pain relief (can't remember the medical terms for this). This whole last part of labor was almost pain-free. It lasted about an hour. I mistakenly had arranged to have an episiotomy. I've never "needed" one since, and probably didn't need one then. I grossed Steve (and myself) out for nothing (http://www.hencigoer.com/obmyth/epis.html).
Critter was one ounce shy of nine pounds. He was twenty and a half inches long. He was a boy! He was born with the "Dr. Phil" hairstyle, which he soon lost and was a baldy until he was two. Steve was skipping around with our 1990s camcorder like it was Christmas.
The Grandmas, who were there watching the whole time (it seems like they should've been eating popcorn while enjoying the show), were sanitizing it up; everyone wanted to hold the little blue bundle.
A few days later they let us take him home. We left quickly, before they realized they were handing a baby over to clueless bumblers.
Critter:
Born April 26th, 1999 at 1:45 AM
8 pounds and 15 ounces
20 1/2 inches long
He was due on April 15th. We didn't know if he was going to be a boy or a girl. His nursery was painted yellow with a Hey Diddle Diddle border.
When I was about ten weeks along, I had some spotting. It was terrifying, especially since I had had a miscarriage previously. I was at school, where I worked as an English teacher. I had gone to the restroom to pee (for the millionth time that day, of course), and I noticed the blood in my underwear. I went to my department head, sobbing and hysterical. I thought if this were another miscarriage, maybe I would never have kids. My department head sent someone to cover my class for me; it was the last one of the day, thankfully.
I was in her office, still crying, and students were coming in for this or that. I could just hear the rumors now. No one knew I was pregnant, but I'm sure my kids would wonder what was upsetting Ms. Sullivan. A good cussing? I was fired? A death threat? Gossip rules the high school. Anyway, my boss, who had had her share of miscarriages, sent me home to call my doctor.
My doctor said she didn't do ultrasounds on Friday, but I could make an appointment on Monday. What? We are supposed to wait until Monday to find out if we have lost another baby or not? Livid. Doc says if I'm going to miscarry, there is nothing that can be done about it anyway. Apparently she isn't familiar with the term "peace of mind."
One agonizing weekend later (no more spotting, thankfully), I went in for an ultrasound and saw my little peanut on the screen. Although minuscule, he's alive, and everything looked normal.
I went through the rest of my pregnancy with no more scares. No morning sickness even. I gained 50 pounds. A nurse told me, "I gained too much with my first one too." I wanted to slap her. I didn't gorge myself purposefully; I was just always hungry.
At about 38 weeks, I started having painful Braxton Hicks. My husband, Steve, started timing them. They kept coming regularly until we were about to call the doc, and then theywould fizzle out. This went on for about two weeks. In fact, one night we were so sure the baby was coming that we called the grandparents and headed to the hospital. The moment I waddled in the door the contractions went away. Embarrassing...
While being uselessly checked out at the hospital, I overheard a woman screaming. Her husband was nervously answering questions from the nurse. I heard the nurse say the woman was three centimeters dilated. I had just been told I was dilated to two. I thought in horror, "am I only one centimeter from THAT?" I felt the kind of dread one feels when on a roller coaster and about to go down the big hill.
My hubby and I had attended birth classes like dutiful first timers. I went to the first class determined that no one was going to change my mind about drugs, drugs, and more drugs during the birth. We had wonderful teachers who demonstrated all of the options. They weren't pushy, but objective and honest. The classes served their educational purpose, and we came away from them informed, enlightened, and inspired. Inspired to go all-natural. Yes, I became one of those.
Steve mercilessly kept me walking throughout my pregnancy. We walked a lot toward the end, trying to make things happen. Mostly what happened was my bladder felt like it was going to fall out. One night, at forty-one and a half weeks gestation, we walked to the grocery store (about a mile and a half from our house).
I was having the Braxton Hicks contractions again. I was in a bad mood. Hubby was taking too long deciding on cookies. Finally he picked out some crappy Chips Ahoy, and we headed to the video store next door.
We started for home with the cookies and Witness. We lounged on the couch watching our movie.This was about 8:45 PM. Suddenly I heard a tiny "pop" like someone smacking his lips together. I went into the bathroom, sat on the toilet, and heard tinkling sounds, only I wasn't urinating. My water had broken! It was only trickling, which I didn't even know was an option in water breakage.
Steve and I grabbed our bag, which had a layer of dust on it from being ready for so long (I was a week and a half overdue and had been having false labor since 38 weeks). We called the grandparents and doc. We drove to the hospital to have our Critter.
We got to the hospital about 9:45. Critter was born at 1:45 AM. The labor was about five hours total, that I know of. I could tell NO difference between the false labor pains and the real ones, only that the real ones didn't fizzle out a few hours later, and a baby did eventually come out. Perhaps I had a super long labor lasting two weeks. Either that, or I had a quick labor.
I was thinking I'd have a typical labor of eight to ten hours or longer. Thinking this, I asked for an epidural a little before 1:00. I had been managing the pain by breathing techniques, rocking, and looking at a picture of Maui. I discovered walking while in labor is for the birds. Then, the contractions started coming relentlessly closer together, and I could not rest. I thought I could not take going all night like this.
The nurse I had was one of the most knowledgeable, kind, and skilled that I've ever had. She told me she had had five children (foreshadowing, anyone?), some with an epidural and some without. She didn't push me one way or the other, but simply let me know she'd been there and could answer questions. After she ordered my epidural, she said, "let me check you before we give it to you." She checked me, and I was almost ten centimeters. She told me that she had been suspicious that I was in transition. She advised me to forgo the drugs, because at this point, it was almost over. As if by magic, the pain went away. Maybe my pain-addled brain thought I'd gotten the epidural after all.
I rested for a long time, perhaps twenty minutes, without a contraction (I have since learned this is appropriately called "the resting phase." Then, holy hell, there came the pressure. If I pushed along with it, though, it did not hurt. My baby was resting at the cervical opening in such a way that I felt a natural pain relief (can't remember the medical terms for this). This whole last part of labor was almost pain-free. It lasted about an hour. I mistakenly had arranged to have an episiotomy. I've never "needed" one since, and probably didn't need one then. I grossed Steve (and myself) out for nothing (http://www.hencigoer.com/obmyth/epis.html).
Critter was one ounce shy of nine pounds. He was twenty and a half inches long. He was a boy! He was born with the "Dr. Phil" hairstyle, which he soon lost and was a baldy until he was two. Steve was skipping around with our 1990s camcorder like it was Christmas.
The Grandmas, who were there watching the whole time (it seems like they should've been eating popcorn while enjoying the show), were sanitizing it up; everyone wanted to hold the little blue bundle.
A few days later they let us take him home. We left quickly, before they realized they were handing a baby over to clueless bumblers.
Critter:
Born April 26th, 1999 at 1:45 AM
8 pounds and 15 ounces
20 1/2 inches long
Thursday, June 18, 2009
Paging Dr. House
This past spring break my family and I traveled to the Midwest to visit relatives. We planned on celebrating Easter and our baby's first birthday there as well. We were going to be staying with my in-laws for about a week. About the third day in, I was visiting my mother with the kiddies. My mom had a windmill she was planning on installing in her yard, but it was sitting in her family room. She moved it to the spare bedroom so that my brood wouldn't hurt themselves on it. Irony came along, and while my mom was carrying the baby, E.E., she tripped on said windmill. She fell with E.E. in her arms, and he softly hit his head on the floor. He did cry for a while, but appeared normal the rest of the afternoon. That was that, or so we thought.
Later on that evening, I was back at my in-laws' house. E.E. became irritable. I chalked it up to teething, lack of sleep, and being in a strange place. Then he started crying if he were ever standing for a long time (E. E. had just learned to pull up to things and stand there, but he couldn't stand on his own, cruise, or walk yet). He would cry and then collapse onto his bottom eventually. Then he would stand again and be fine for awhile. I thought this was strange, but again I attributed it to tiredness. Then stork-boy appeared. E.E. started standing on just one leg like a stork. I began to worry in earnest.
I called my mom and asked her if she thought his leg could have gotten hurt in the fall. She said he didn't hit his leg on the floor, but she was holding him so tight, maybe he jammed his leg against her body. We considered this a possible solution to the stork-boy mystery.
I noticed when I changed E.E.'s diaper, he winced. As I would pull his left leg down to straighten him out he would cry. I felt up and down his leg, testing it. He didn't seem to mind me touching his leg at any spot. He did mind when I pulled the leg. I also noticed he tended to keep the leg curled up to the side when on his back (he looked like he was doing a pirouette). I got the idea that maybe he had gas. I know sometimes babies pull their legs up when they have painful gas. This next part will later make me slap myself. I began to pull his leg up into his stomach. This made him cry out in pain, but I thought, "This always helps with the gas. It's for your own good little buddy."
I debated with the in-laws (my husband, Big Daddy, was actually in San Francisco on business and would be meeting us later) as to whether I should take the little guy in to the ER or not. He is my fifth baby; my first born would already be in his car seat en route to the hospital. Also, my family has what we call the "hospital tour" going on. We have been to so many medical facilities across the U.S., (we should really be experts on the state of our nation's hospital care), and we try to avoid adding another hospital to our tour if we can help it. Stay tuned for more medical misadventures.
Anyway, I decided he would be fine until morning, when I would then take him to an urgent-care center for $50 (instead of the ER for $100) if he was still acting like stork-boy. He was completely fine when he wasn't standing or having his diaper changed, so how bad off could he be?
Flash forward to 1 AM, 2 AM, 3 AM, 4 AM... he was waking and crying about every hour. Jeepers, is this a mini-version of The Curious Case of Benjamin Button? He was turning into a newborn again. Needless to say, I was regretting my decision to forgo the e.r. I almost drove him there at 1 AM, 2 AM... I kept thinking, "I've been through this before. We've had gas that kept us up," but this was more intense. My poor baby. He had a fracture. A concussion. His leg was disintegrating. He swallowed a Lite Brite piece, and now it was puncturing his intestines. I actually believed that last one was a possibility. The older ones were playing with the Lite Brite...
Morning intruded on the little wisp of sleep I had gotten. I left the older kiddies with their grandparents and headed to the urgent care. Blood was drawn. X-rays were taken. E.E. was poked and prodded. The doc thought it could be osteomyelitis, a hip infection which usually follows an illness. E.E. was recovering from a cold. If that was the case, he would be fine in a few days. That was not the case. His blood work showed high inflammation and white blood cell count and some other mumbo jumbo indicative of a bacterial infection. He was referred to an orthopedic doctor who came back with E.E.'s blood work results, freaking out. He feared E.E. had a septic hip and he needed to get it treated ASAP or the joint could start to deteriorate. Oh yay. We were then sent to Riley Children's Hospital, in Indianapolis, about an hour away.
Oh, by the way, did I mention:
*my hubby was still out of town- so I'd be doing this alone
* my cell phone decided to quit working, and I couldn't even call my in-laws
*I was supposed to be picking up aforementioned hubby at the airport later that day
*this day was E.E.'s first birthday, and I had a half-iced cake at the house
E.E. was admitted on his birthday and given an I.V. line. Instead of cake he got needles. That was a blast, especially for poor E.E. Little tiny baby veins. I finally suggested they put the line in his head where huge veins were popping out all over the place as he wailed. They took my advice! Once he was "plugged in" (that's what it looked like- he had a power outlet on his head) antibiotics were given. Then more tests were done. To make it more stressful, E.E. developed a fever. A high fever. His dad finally arrived from his business trip. We wrung our hands in mutual worry.
E.E. was knocked out and fluid was drawn from his hip. Not septic. He had an MRI. Hip had no inflammation. Not the hip causing him to be stork boy. However, inflammation was shown in the lower leg. A "toddler fracture" was suspected. Sometimes these don't show up on x-rays right away. A bone scan was ordered.
So far, we had been in the hospital for three days. We were already a day late getting back to Georgia; the older kids had to get back to school and Big Daddy had work. We decided that the older kids and Big Daddy would head back home tomorrow. I would come with the younger ones when E.E. recovered from the mystery stork disease. The next day, off they went.
They had been gone half a day, when E. E. miraculously started standing on his leg again. He hadn't even had the bone scan yet. I convinced the docs to let us go home. We would follow up with his pediatrician there.
E.E. had another x-ray back in Georgia. It showed no fracture. Finally, a pediatric orthopedic doctor we were referred to determined that he had a bone infection. The course of treatment would be six weeks of squirting foul liquids into baby's mouth (antibiotics). Seriously, his meds smelled like a pet store.
Six weeks later, E.E. showed no signs of any leg pain. It was never fully verified that he had a bone infection, but that was most likely what it was. No one could tell us why he got the infection, but all the docs said that it is usually unknown why babies and young children get them. It may have had something to do with the fall he had with Grandma or it may not have.
The doctors, nurses, and staff were wonderful at Riley. Nice, helpful, patient, and they knew what they were doing (with the exception of one intern who was none of the above). I was so grateful; like I said, I've been in a lot of hospitals, and E.E. could've had worse.
I was also grateful that my baby turned out to be fine in the end. Seeing all the much sicker children around the hospital made me count my blessings.
Later on that evening, I was back at my in-laws' house. E.E. became irritable. I chalked it up to teething, lack of sleep, and being in a strange place. Then he started crying if he were ever standing for a long time (E. E. had just learned to pull up to things and stand there, but he couldn't stand on his own, cruise, or walk yet). He would cry and then collapse onto his bottom eventually. Then he would stand again and be fine for awhile. I thought this was strange, but again I attributed it to tiredness. Then stork-boy appeared. E.E. started standing on just one leg like a stork. I began to worry in earnest.
I called my mom and asked her if she thought his leg could have gotten hurt in the fall. She said he didn't hit his leg on the floor, but she was holding him so tight, maybe he jammed his leg against her body. We considered this a possible solution to the stork-boy mystery.
I noticed when I changed E.E.'s diaper, he winced. As I would pull his left leg down to straighten him out he would cry. I felt up and down his leg, testing it. He didn't seem to mind me touching his leg at any spot. He did mind when I pulled the leg. I also noticed he tended to keep the leg curled up to the side when on his back (he looked like he was doing a pirouette). I got the idea that maybe he had gas. I know sometimes babies pull their legs up when they have painful gas. This next part will later make me slap myself. I began to pull his leg up into his stomach. This made him cry out in pain, but I thought, "This always helps with the gas. It's for your own good little buddy."
I debated with the in-laws (my husband, Big Daddy, was actually in San Francisco on business and would be meeting us later) as to whether I should take the little guy in to the ER or not. He is my fifth baby; my first born would already be in his car seat en route to the hospital. Also, my family has what we call the "hospital tour" going on. We have been to so many medical facilities across the U.S., (we should really be experts on the state of our nation's hospital care), and we try to avoid adding another hospital to our tour if we can help it. Stay tuned for more medical misadventures.
Anyway, I decided he would be fine until morning, when I would then take him to an urgent-care center for $50 (instead of the ER for $100) if he was still acting like stork-boy. He was completely fine when he wasn't standing or having his diaper changed, so how bad off could he be?
Flash forward to 1 AM, 2 AM, 3 AM, 4 AM... he was waking and crying about every hour. Jeepers, is this a mini-version of The Curious Case of Benjamin Button? He was turning into a newborn again. Needless to say, I was regretting my decision to forgo the e.r. I almost drove him there at 1 AM, 2 AM... I kept thinking, "I've been through this before. We've had gas that kept us up," but this was more intense. My poor baby. He had a fracture. A concussion. His leg was disintegrating. He swallowed a Lite Brite piece, and now it was puncturing his intestines. I actually believed that last one was a possibility. The older ones were playing with the Lite Brite...
Morning intruded on the little wisp of sleep I had gotten. I left the older kiddies with their grandparents and headed to the urgent care. Blood was drawn. X-rays were taken. E.E. was poked and prodded. The doc thought it could be osteomyelitis, a hip infection which usually follows an illness. E.E. was recovering from a cold. If that was the case, he would be fine in a few days. That was not the case. His blood work showed high inflammation and white blood cell count and some other mumbo jumbo indicative of a bacterial infection. He was referred to an orthopedic doctor who came back with E.E.'s blood work results, freaking out. He feared E.E. had a septic hip and he needed to get it treated ASAP or the joint could start to deteriorate. Oh yay. We were then sent to Riley Children's Hospital, in Indianapolis, about an hour away.
Oh, by the way, did I mention:
*my hubby was still out of town- so I'd be doing this alone
* my cell phone decided to quit working, and I couldn't even call my in-laws
*I was supposed to be picking up aforementioned hubby at the airport later that day
*this day was E.E.'s first birthday, and I had a half-iced cake at the house
E.E. was admitted on his birthday and given an I.V. line. Instead of cake he got needles. That was a blast, especially for poor E.E. Little tiny baby veins. I finally suggested they put the line in his head where huge veins were popping out all over the place as he wailed. They took my advice! Once he was "plugged in" (that's what it looked like- he had a power outlet on his head) antibiotics were given. Then more tests were done. To make it more stressful, E.E. developed a fever. A high fever. His dad finally arrived from his business trip. We wrung our hands in mutual worry.
E.E. was knocked out and fluid was drawn from his hip. Not septic. He had an MRI. Hip had no inflammation. Not the hip causing him to be stork boy. However, inflammation was shown in the lower leg. A "toddler fracture" was suspected. Sometimes these don't show up on x-rays right away. A bone scan was ordered.
So far, we had been in the hospital for three days. We were already a day late getting back to Georgia; the older kids had to get back to school and Big Daddy had work. We decided that the older kids and Big Daddy would head back home tomorrow. I would come with the younger ones when E.E. recovered from the mystery stork disease. The next day, off they went.
They had been gone half a day, when E. E. miraculously started standing on his leg again. He hadn't even had the bone scan yet. I convinced the docs to let us go home. We would follow up with his pediatrician there.
E.E. had another x-ray back in Georgia. It showed no fracture. Finally, a pediatric orthopedic doctor we were referred to determined that he had a bone infection. The course of treatment would be six weeks of squirting foul liquids into baby's mouth (antibiotics). Seriously, his meds smelled like a pet store.
Six weeks later, E.E. showed no signs of any leg pain. It was never fully verified that he had a bone infection, but that was most likely what it was. No one could tell us why he got the infection, but all the docs said that it is usually unknown why babies and young children get them. It may have had something to do with the fall he had with Grandma or it may not have.
The doctors, nurses, and staff were wonderful at Riley. Nice, helpful, patient, and they knew what they were doing (with the exception of one intern who was none of the above). I was so grateful; like I said, I've been in a lot of hospitals, and E.E. could've had worse.
I was also grateful that my baby turned out to be fine in the end. Seeing all the much sicker children around the hospital made me count my blessings.
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